There are no hand outs in this world

We live in a world where some people want to be spoon fed, taking the easy way out afraid to put in work. We want the biggest results with the littlest effort. If only.. unfortunately this is not how life works.

Life is can be quite complicated at times so where possible we must do certain things to help ourselves.

We must first understand ourselves before we ask others to understand us. We must first try to help ourselves before asking another for help, if we are not willing to help ourselves how can we expect another to help us. Wait, A person who is not willing to help themselves do they even deserve the help of others? The simple answer is no but in reality for me it’s depends on the person and the circumstances. Back to the point I’m trying to make, everything starts with us.

What ever we want from the world me must do and be, if you want understandibg you must understand, if you want love you must love, if you want kindness then be kind, if you want money be more giving with yours. If you want to be surrounded by happiness then be happy and so on and so on. The energy we put out into the world is the energy we will get back be it positive or negative it will come back in some shape or form, this something I’m accepting.

Life isn’t easy so we must do things to help make it easier for ourselves. Instead of sitting and waiting for things to happen we have to go out there and take it with both hands. There are no hand outs in this world. Put in the work and you will be rewarded. Be active in your own life because no one else will be. It’s your life journey to live to the fullest.

We can not always control what happens when but we can control how we respond to it.