Looking for love?! Look No further..

We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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Fake News Or Real News.. Who Knows?!

Fake news gone viral or real news denial
We see what we’re shown who’s to say what’s really real
Cut throat opinionated white coats churning out information
Nothing is ever coincidental, distraction after distraction
Mental incarceration without realising, trapped without force
We gobble up there lies willingly freely riding their course
Wake up wise up eyes open, I’ll guarantee you see’ll what’s really going on
Nothing is ever as it seems
I’m questioning everything 

-Dionne MT-

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Anger & Rage

A man who does not get angry is a dangerous man. It is impossible to never feel anger, to never get angry is to suppress the emotion. Bottling things inside only ever leads to one outcome.. an explosion as the bottle can no longer take the pressure.

I understand now, the key is not about never allowing yourself to get angry, it’s recognising the emotion and releasing it in the right way to avoid an explosive build up. It’s not about releasing it on to someone else, as the cycle will just continue unless they themselves are aware enough to not bring about an reaction. It’s about responding to your anger, responding to your frustrations in the right way. 

An impulsive person doesn’t act from the conscious mind but the unconscious. 

They say stress can make you unwell and it’s true, it’s the same for anger. A build up of negative emotions eventually start to manifest into the physical in the form of various conditions. We have to learn how to release these negative feelings. Exercise, sing, write do anything to bring about a switch in your emotion, do whatever works for you. 

Our emotions do not have to control us to the point where we are being tossed around living in turmoil alongside our up and down emotions. Emotions can fluctuate from day to day hour to hour, emotions are feelings in motion we just have to learn how to navigate them. 

Certain emotions such as anger and sadness are not always a bad thing as long as we respond in the right way sometimes these feelings are trying to tell us something.

Possessed by your own unconscious repressed subconscious this is what we call rage. Anger should never turn into rage. Becoming aware of our emotions is the first step, responding in the right way is the second. 

-Dionne MT- 

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Opportunities, Fear & Patience

Some opportunities don’t come around everyday so when they do appear we have to be ready and willing to take it. 

There is never going to be a perfect time to start something new only the time you make.

So many times in our life we talk about wanting more, wanting to be more but we’re afraid to take the risks having more involves. 

Fear of failure is what is stopping so many of us from chasing our dreams. Fear of not knowing what to do is what keeps so many of us in our comfort zones. Ultimately we pass up on opportunities because of fear. 

The decisions we make in life should be based on our dreams and aspirations not on our fears. We have to accept that with all things we have to start from somewhere and then be prepared to put in the necessary man hours to master our craft. 

We live in a age where everyone wants instant results, we live in a now generation where everything is fast paced and easily accessible. As the years have gone by and the world we’re living in has changed, patience is one of the characteristics we have lost along the way. We’re not accustomed to waiting for things like those before us who had no choice.

Success doesn’t download at these fibre optic speeds we’re now experiencing, real life results is still working on a dial-up speed meaning it takes time, they may be some interruption but with perseverance you will eventually get what you want.

Don’t let fear stop you from taking opportunities, when they come knocking open the door and with all things remember to be patient.

Peace, Love & Positivity 

-Dionne MT-

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Be Present.. Live In The Now

A lot of the time we’re so focused on what’s happened in the past or what could possibly happen in the future that we forget about the now, the present moment.

Life is not the past or future it’s a sequence of never ending moments all called now. 

Focusing on that which we have no control over is futile.

Forget about yesterday and stop worrying about tomorrow. Remember time is an illusion. What you do now is what’s important.

-Dionne MT-

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