Looking for love?! Look No further..

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We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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The Bloggers Network: All are welcome

To all my fellow bloggers hello hi, hope you’re well. As more and more of you join the Bloggers Network I encourage you to click on some of the links that have been shared and explore some of the amazing blogs in this network. It’s a great way to find new blogs and let people find yours.

The bloggers network is a platform for us all to come together, support each other and connect. Show love and you will receive love back.

All bloggers are also welcome to leave links to specific posts in the comments section below, to be considered for the Recommended Reads section which I will be updating shortly.

Happy Thursday folks and happy blogging

Love Love

-Dionne MT-

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Deeper Possible..

when it's real you know it real. deeper than the physical

I’m cooking up a storm brewing like a pressure cooker about to erupt 
When it hits you, if it hits you, once I start don’t fight it don’t interrupt
You already know it’s deeper than the physical
Leave you thinking the impossible is possible 
How deep?
Deeper possible
Effortless quite simple
Side stepping
Blurred lines Invisible

-Dionne MT-

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Evening Thoughts: Running solves nothing

You can’t run away from your problems. The best thing to do is be present and deal with them directly head on. Running away changes nothing, the problem will be right where you left it waiting patiently for you to come back. What you find is if you start running you will always be running, you’ll always be looking for an escape.

The thing is we’re basically running away from ourselves because most of the things we run from are within us. We don’t leave it behind when we run we’re just so distracted we don’t realise we’ve brought it with us.

Stop running, it solves nothing.

-Dionne MT-

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Real Friends

family become friends and friends become family
Be careful of the friend who calls you brother or sister but treats you like a stranger the moment you mess up.

We shouldn’t throw words around unless we mean them. My friends who I class as family are just that.. My family regardless of how their shit smells. I will be there to help pick up the pieces they brake. I will be there to tell them the truth when no one else will. I will be there to wipe their tears. I will be there to say well done. I will be there regardless. If you can not handle someone at their worst do you deserve them at there best? You can not pick and choose the parts you like.

Sometimes it’s better to have a few real friends than a bunch of fake friends. Fake friends will only stick around when you have something to offer, something that will benefit them. They are not necessarily looking out for your best interests. Real friends could care less if you had a penny in your pocket or drove a flash car. They are invested in you as a person. When you win they win.

Understand this. Remove the weeds and watch your garden flourish.

To all my real friends.. I’ve got you the same way you all have me.

Love Love

-Dionne MT-

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