Looking for love?! Look No further..

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We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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Living In The Now.. The Simple Life

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Life is about enjoying the moments, enjoying every single moment to the max.

Why waste pointless time and energy on unproductive thoughts and behaviours, things that do not bring us any joy. Why? Why torment ourselves with memories better left where they are, in the past.

Regrets, past loves, loss, heartbreak and heartache.. most can relate to this. As harsh as it sounds but unless you are thinking happy thoughts, things that evoke a good feeling inside don’t do it to yourself. We can’t sit dwelling on these things when it adds nothing to our life by doing so. We all do it, we all have our moments and those who don’t have such moments.. I salute you, I’d love to meet you to unravel your brain and find out how you do what you do.

The moment we wake yesterday is gone and tomorrow is yet to come. So why not just live in the moment. Today, The now! Every single moment is waiting to be enjoyed, an escasty of pleasure awaits us every single day.. If we want. 

Worry less, let it all go, let yourself go, let the pain go, whatever it is.. just let it go. Just enjoy life, live in the moment for the moments, that’s what I’ve realised. I think the moment you do that is the moment you’re free, free from the mental slavery.. free from all the bs. You see above it all, all the superficial stuff. If there was a matrix, you are not in it. Freedom. The system doesn’t play you, you play the system, you are the system. You’re in control.

Life is as simple or as complicated as we make it.

  
-Dionne MT-

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What’s holding you back? Removing limitations

   

Removing limitations

Are we our own downfalls? Are we setting the bar too low in our lives? 

There are so many times we limit ourselves because of a lack of belief or because we’ve been trained to believe a limit actually exists, when actually the only limits are the limits we set ourselves. 

So many of us have been brought up in a way where we’ve seen a lot of making do, living month to month. We see this as life; go to work, pay bills, throw in some fun nights out and then wait for the next pay check. It’s a vicious cycle. Is there not more to life? 

Why are we so afraid to push ourselves? It’s that fear of failure what keeps us in this cycle. We remain in our comfort zones because it’s the easy option, it requires the least work with an outcome that as a society we’ve deemed to be ok… A roof over our heads and our bills paid. The damage was done long before we started living this life, it’s all we know right? 

Think about some of the most successful people you know. These are the folks who believe anything is possible, these are the folks who see that there is indeed more to life. If they fail they start again.

What would you rather do, set a low target and reach it easily or fall just short of a high target? 

Reaching a low target easily is not winning and falling short of your high target is not loosing.
 

We underachieve constantly simply because we didn’t believe, so we didn’t try.

We have to learn how to remove the limits we place in our lives, any and everything is possible. There’s no such thing as I can’t so instead of living in doubt let’s live in hope, hope for more. Let’s aim high and encourage each other to keep pushing on.

There is more to life, the sky doesn’t have to be the limit.

-Dionnr MT-

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Lost Words

  

So much to say

Too little time to express

So much to say

Lost words like scrabble

I know not what letter to play

So much to say

Who will hear my words

Who will understand 

So much to say

Who will listen 

Who will laugh like its a game

Snakes and ladders or crystal maze

Operation or mouse trap 

Some will stay focused 

Some will not be phased

Pen to paper

Mic to hand

I’ve got so much to say

We all have so much to say

So when it counts the most why do we stay silent 

Muted. Unable to articulate unable to express what we really want to say

Lost words

-Dionne MT-

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Sunglasses weather 

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Summer loving social smokers
Park life and barbecues welcome to sunglasses weather
Rosè and cider, no seats beer garden problems
Ahh how we love summer
Roof top terraces any excuse to gather
Hibernation season is truly over
Smiles get wider frowns seem to disappear
A sense of peace and happiness you can feel it in the air
Do I need an umbrella is your only real fear
The British weather is like no other
Slight sun, we embrace like there is no tomorrow
Summer springs and Indian summers
Sun is sun, who doesn’t love sunglasses weather

-Dionne MT-

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We all have a vision..

  
Fear of failure is what prevents so many of us from embarking on new ventures. We have to let go of the negative what ifs and hold on to the positive what ifs. Do you believe anything is possible? We must hold on to that belief and have faith in our own abilities.

There are people out there who will always try to discourage you but that’s only because of the fear they hold within themselves. It’s not personal but a reflection of their own inner doubts.

We do not always have to seek validation from others.
We ask questions with expectations inevitably leading to disappointment. 

Just do you, we all have a vision but only a few have what it takes to see it come to pass. The few who do not give up after failing many times, the few who remain focused on the end goal. 

Do not be discouraged, there is no time frame. Some of the most successful people took years before they saw their vision come to pass. So hold on to your vision tight, once you’ve had it no one can take it away from you but you. 

Believing in yourself is the only validation you truly need.

-Dionne MT-

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