Looking for love?! Look No further..

We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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Opportunities, Fear & Patience

Some opportunities don’t come around everyday so when they do appear we have to be ready and willing to take it. 

There is never going to be a perfect time to start something new only the time you make.

So many times in our life we talk about wanting more, wanting to be more but we’re afraid to take the risks having more involves. 

Fear of failure is what is stopping so many of us from chasing our dreams. Fear of not knowing what to do is what keeps so many of us in our comfort zones. Ultimately we pass up on opportunities because of fear. 

The decisions we make in life should be based on our dreams and aspirations not on our fears. We have to accept that with all things we have to start from somewhere and then be prepared to put in the necessary man hours to master our craft. 

We live in a age where everyone wants instant results, we live in a now generation where everything is fast paced and easily accessible. As the years have gone by and the world we’re living in has changed, patience is one of the characteristics we have lost along the way. We’re not accustomed to waiting for things like those before us who had no choice.

Success doesn’t download at these fibre optic speeds we’re now experiencing, real life results is still working on a dial-up speed meaning it takes time, they may be some interruption but with perseverance you will eventually get what you want.

Don’t let fear stop you from taking opportunities, when they come knocking open the door and with all things remember to be patient.

Peace, Love & Positivity 

-Dionne MT-

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Be Present.. Live In The Now

A lot of the time we’re so focused on what’s happened in the past or what could possibly happen in the future that we forget about the now, the present moment.

Life is not the past or future it’s a sequence of never ending moments all called now. 

Focusing on that which we have no control over is futile.

Forget about yesterday and stop worrying about tomorrow. Remember time is an illusion. What you do now is what’s important.

-Dionne MT-

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You Define You

Shallow faces turn quicker than the weather
Whether you like it or not physically I refuse to be defined 
I am she blessed with both feminine and masculine energy
Addressing stereotypes breaking boundaries
You can be whoever you want to be, do whatever you want to do
Who knew in a world full of opinions and judgemental folks, people would stand against injustice no longer afraid to stand alone
Stand for what you believe in, sit for who stay silent for who
Back against the wall screaming from the rooftop, you define you

-Dionne MT-

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