Looking for love?! Look No further..

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We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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Don’t Settle. You deserve butterflies 

It can be very hard to meet someone who truly gets you. Someone who embraces your quirks. Many are attracted to the physical but will not take the time to know and actually understand you. 

Relationships these days don’t seem to last because what you find is, you have two people who find each other physically attractive but don’t know a thing about each other. Your partner should know what pushes your buttons, what calms you down, what you love, what you hate, they should know you.
As time passes certain things start to bother you or physical changes occurs, when you’re with someone for the right reasons theses things don’t bother you. 

I remember when I use to be so shallow. I cared so much about what others thought of my partner. In reality none of that matters, all that matter is the connection, the energy. Find someone who you can connect with on a deeper level than the physical. When something is based purely on physical attraction it will eventually fizzle out, their attraction will start to dim, they will always have to make this extreme effort to keep your attention. That’s not how things should work. When you meet someone and connect with them, when your energy aligns the physical will follow effortlessly. That person will always be the most beautiful person to you. It has to be deeper than the physical or I’m not interested. 

I don’t have time to waste chasing beautiful skirts, I’m over here trying to give of good energy knowing that good energy will find me. I don’t need to have thousands of potentials I just need one person who will take the time to sit down and get to know me for me. Many see me and are attracted to me, but do not understand me. Be weary of the person who shows you so much interest but does not know one thing about you. All they know is what they see and we are far from just our outer layer.

don't settle. real love, you deserve butterflies too

I’m not saying you can’t learn to love someone because I’m sure you can but for me I don’t see why you should have to force a feeling. If it’s not there from day one it’s probably never going to be without a lot of effort. That initial feeling you have when you meet someone is usually the feeling that will continue. 

Don’t settle for a superficial connection based purely on physical attraction, you deserve the butterflies. I’m sure we’ve all loved and lost enough to know better by now.. we deserve the real thing. 

-Dionne MT-

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The Bloggers Network: All are welcome

To all my fellow bloggers hello hi, hope you’re well. As more and more of you join the Bloggers Network I encourage you to click on some of the links that have been shared and explore some of the amazing blogs in this network. It’s a great way to find new blogs and let people find yours.

The bloggers network is a platform for us all to come together, support each other and connect. Show love and you will receive love back.

All bloggers are also welcome to leave links to specific posts in the comments section below, to be considered for the Recommended Reads section which I will be updating shortly.

Happy Thursday folks and happy blogging

Love Love

-Dionne MT-

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Deeper Possible..

when it's real you know it real. deeper than the physical

I’m cooking up a storm brewing like a pressure cooker about to erupt 
When it hits you, if it hits you, once I start don’t fight it don’t interrupt
You already know it’s deeper than the physical
Leave you thinking the impossible is possible 
How deep?
Deeper possible
Effortless quite simple
Side stepping
Blurred lines Invisible

-Dionne MT-

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Evening Thoughts: Running solves nothing

You can’t run away from your problems. The best thing to do is be present and deal with them directly head on. Running away changes nothing, the problem will be right where you left it waiting patiently for you to come back. What you find is if you start running you will always be running, you’ll always be looking for an escape.

The thing is we’re basically running away from ourselves because most of the things we run from are within us. We don’t leave it behind when we run we’re just so distracted we don’t realise we’ve brought it with us.

Stop running, it solves nothing.

-Dionne MT-

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