Looking for love?! Look No further..

We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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Food for Thought

How can we excel amongst the mess of our reality if we are constantly being weighed down by it. Despite what is going on around us, we have to rise above it all.

We have to learn how to not allow our environment to infect us.

Why not be the light in the dark or the smile amongst the frowns. Who knows when your storm will pass, so dance in the rain and sing though your pain because sitting and complaining will only give you more of the same.. only action can bring change.

-Dionne MT-

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I love you today

What’s love? A few letters mashed together or is love a feeling?

What’s love if it’s not unconditional?

Why do you love? Is it because the person makes you happy, is it because they’ve got nice clothes, a sweet face, good job or do you love them because of how they make you feel or what they do for you? Is it really love or is it lust, better yet who even understands love? Does love even make any sense? Doesn’t falling in love mean you can eventually fall out of it?

These are the questions so many think about but are afraid to ask.

I believe to love a person is to love them for being the imperfect being they are, it’s loving them despite their flaws. It’s loving their energy, their essence, it’s the air that surrounds them. It’s not these temporary superficial things that will eventually fade.. it’s loving that persons true self.

People get into relationships and refer to the beginning as the honeymoon period, the period where it’s bliss straight sailing. True natures hidden we grow to love a false representations of that person, or a half self where only the best traits are shown. Six months later the relationship is on the rocks because your true selves begin to come out and that’s not what you both signed up to right. You fell for the mask.

This is why it’s so important to be yourself from the beginning. I’ll show you my bipolar personality, I’ll tell you exactly what you’re getting yourself into. I’ll share my past with you, I will never pretend to be perfect or try to present myself as someone who hasn’t made any mistakes. Doing this takes some level of personal awareness, because no one knows your flaws better than you.

We’re living in a time where it’s so important to own our bs. If we want to be loved for who we are, we must embrace our true selves. Less relationships would fizzle out if everyone was able to do this.

Don’t allow someone to fall in love with the idea of you, let them fall for the real you because once they realise that the idea they have cultivated in their head doesn’t match up to reality, they will easily fall back out of this so called love they was in.

The moral of the story.. be yourself and you can’t go wrong.

So what is love? There is no one true complete answer. The real question is what is love to you? That’s all that matters.

-Dionne MT-

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What’s a dream if you can’t live it?

He said he’ll do it tomorrow.. he blinked and the year was over
Procrastination. Time waits for no one
Times revolving doors continuously spinning, churning out hour after hour day after day
No pausing to take notes no instant replays
We sit we wait we ponder time eclipsing each day
Gone forever never to come back,
If only life was measured in should haves and could haves, we’d have it all
In reality without action all these possibilities count for nothing at all
Without action what do we really have? Nothing but high hopes and sweet dreams
But what’s a dream if you can’t live it, that sounds like a nightmare to me

-Dionne MT-

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Parts of me

I’m trying to unlock parts of me, untouched parts for me
Parts of me you do not see, parts of me that make me me
You see parts of me I hide so well
You see parts of me I shouldn’t tell
I tell to kill the egoic parts of me
I tell to lighten dark parts of me
Parts of me, there are so many parts of me
New levels new parts, parts of me I’m yet to see
Parts of me who make me me

-Dionne MT-

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