Looking for love?! Look No further..

We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.

So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.

We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.

Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.

At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.

Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.

If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.

When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.

Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.

It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.

-Dionne MT-

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No one takes notice till it’s on our doorstep 

Everyday I open the paper to more sadness and anger, surrounded by commuters eagle eyed looking for danger 
Toxic fumes surround us a world drowning in turmoil 
Foiled plots no longer foiled but acted out on British soil
Third world problems knocking on our door like hello how do you do 
No one takes notice till it’s on our doorstep “I never expected it” neighbours right next to you 

When it hit Paris we was outraged, sad and in shock
Manchester our jaws dropped London we was rocked
Knocked for six everyone in a state of disbelief but honestly.. that only lasted a few days
It’s almost as if we expected it, it was only a matter of days the prophesied last days

What really hit me was seeing a failing system failing hundreds cutting corners 
A community destroyed thousands mourning Grenfell grieving, abandoned.. I still can’t believe it 

-Dionne MT-

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To all those caught up in these tragedies near or far, past or present my heart goes out to your friends and families.
No words can make it better you deserved better may your souls rest in peace
x

You must not loose faith in humamity

What Do You Believe In?

Why do we question what other people believe in rather than focus on what we believe? Is it because those who do that do not believe in something with unwathering doubt, is it because they have not found a cause to fight for so they try to disrupt others beliefs to bring them into the same confused state they may be in. 

Everyone has the right to believe whatever that want, no matter how far away it may be from your own views or morals. 

Believing in something gives some people hope, something to focus on. In a world filled with so much hate and anger why shouldn’t we allow people to believe in whatever makes them happy, whatever allows them to keep going each day.

I say aslong as it doesn’t cause anyone harm believe whatever you want, believe it with all your heart and don’t let anyone sway you. 

-Dionne MT-

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I wonder..

Should I dumb down my intelligence to seem relevant
To fit in with crowd as not to intimidate others
I wonder…
Should I speak in slang wa gwarns that’s nang gang gang gang  

Do I scare them off because I’m not superficial just concerned with their beauty it’s the substance within that will hold me 
Or is it because of their lack of depth being exposed for all to see
I wonder..

For years they’ve been skating by with their pretty faces and slim waists reeling them in with sweet fucks with fuck all to say
That was fine when we was younger seeking trophies and a toy to play
How can I speak this way? Am I not just painting what many are afraid to say 
I wonder..

She said I speak so well but to the well spoken I’m common as hell
It’s all subjective and standards 
Standard to some is extraordinary to others but still we try and compare ourselves to one another

Deep conversations one minute the next acting a fool dancing around light hearted if only you knew 
Trust me there are many chapters to a book different coloured sides to a rubix cube

Never intimidated never vocally sedated 
High class no class we’re all the same just energy in motion 
I’ll always do me and stay true to I and so should you this is my conclusion 

-Dionne MT-


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Don’t Be Ashamed Of Your Scars

Nobody is perfect we all have our flaws
How can you be so quick to judge another but not recognise yours 
They throw stones point fingers sharpen claws 
They gather ready to see a massacre ready to see the gore 
They form stoning parties so pleased at your downfall 
They’ll be the first to say they knew you when you have it all
Don’t be ashamed of your scars
Experienced life warriors ready for war

-Dionne MT-

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