I love you today

What’s love? A few letters mashed together or is love a feeling?

What’s love if it’s not unconditional?

Why do you love? Is it because the person makes you happy, is it because they’ve got nice clothes, a sweet face, good job or do you love them because of how they make you feel or what they do for you? Is it really love or is it lust, better yet who even understands love? Does love even make any sense? Doesn’t falling in love mean you can eventually fall out of it?

These are the questions so many think about but are afraid to ask.

I believe to love a person is to love them for being the imperfect being they are, it’s loving them despite their flaws. It’s loving their energy, their essence, it’s the air that surrounds them. It’s not these temporary superficial things that will eventually fade.. it’s loving that persons true self.

People get into relationships and refer to the beginning as the honeymoon period, the period where it’s bliss straight sailing. True natures hidden we grow to love a false representations of that person, or a half self where only the best traits are shown. Six months later the relationship is on the rocks because your true selves begin to come out and that’s not what you both signed up to right. You fell for the mask.

This is why it’s so important to be yourself from the beginning. I’ll show you my bipolar personality, I’ll tell you exactly what you’re getting yourself into. I’ll share my past with you, I will never pretend to be perfect or try to present myself as someone who hasn’t made any mistakes. Doing this takes some level of personal awareness, because no one knows your flaws better than you.

We’re living in a time where it’s so important to own our bs. If we want to be loved for who we are, we must embrace our true selves. Less relationships would fizzle out if everyone was able to do this.

Don’t allow someone to fall in love with the idea of you, let them fall for the real you because once they realise that the idea they have cultivated in their head doesn’t match up to reality, they will easily fall back out of this so called love they was in.

The moral of the story.. be yourself and you can’t go wrong.

So what is love? There is no one true complete answer. The real question is what is love to you? That’s all that matters.

-Dionne MT-

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What’s a dream if you can’t live it?

He said he’ll do it tomorrow.. he blinked and the year was over
Procrastination. Time waits for no one
Times revolving doors continuously spinning, churning out hour after hour day after day
No pausing to take notes no instant replays
We sit we wait we ponder time eclipsing each day
Gone forever never to come back,
If only life was measured in should haves and could haves, we’d have it all
In reality without action all these possibilities count for nothing at all
Without action what do we really have? Nothing but high hopes and sweet dreams
But what’s a dream if you can’t live it, that sounds like a nightmare to me

-Dionne MT-

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Parts of me

I’m trying to unlock parts of me, untouched parts for me
Parts of me you do not see, parts of me that make me me
You see parts of me I hide so well
You see parts of me I shouldn’t tell
I tell to kill the egoic parts of me
I tell to lighten dark parts of me
Parts of me, there are so many parts of me
New levels new parts, parts of me I’m yet to see
Parts of me who make me me

-Dionne MT-

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No more lies, No more excuses

A point comes when you no longer have any excuses to tell yourself, all the reasons you use to justify why you haven’t started a certain project or given up that annoying bad habit eventually run out. You can lie to everyone around you, you can even lie to yourself for awhile but after awhile even you will stop believing the lies and excuses you tell yourself.

Why do we put things off until the last minute, why do we wait until our backs are against the wall?

The bigger the change the bigger the sacrifice. If it was going to be easy we’d have done it by now right? We anticipate how hard something will be and this is what stops us from starting in the first place. The thought of not knowing how to do something makes us uncomfortable and puts us off, wanting instant results and not getting them discourages us, thinking about how to start stresses us out so we don’t.

If we stop at the first mind hurdle we’ll never make it out the blocks to the action stage. Some would rather not start if they can’t guarantee success but ask yourself this, isn’t not starting failure anyway?

Enough is enough! We can’t keep thinking like this, we can’t keep allowing ourselves to be our own downfall. What we put in is what we get out, it’s as simple as that.

We can keep doing the bare minimum and continue to get minimum results or we can choose to say now is the time and do more.

-Dionne MT-

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