We must learn to love ourselves before we can love another.
This is a well known fact now.
Knowing our self worth is so important.
So many times in our life we search for a partner, someone to love us, someone to make us happy. We walk into relationships searching for someone to complete us.
We come with our baggage, we come with our expectations and with all these needs. We come and unsurprisingly we eventually have to leave.
Should we not be going into a relationship already happy, already whole. Should a partner not bring additional joy to your life, not the only joy.
At times we get into relationships, two broken beings feeding of each other’s soul. Two stagnant souls you’ll be, stuck in a rut trying to fix each other.
Instead we should focus on being happy whilst single. When alone; this is the time to learn to love yourself, learn to respect yourself, find out what makes you happy, be happy, motivate yourself, dream big, get out of the bed in the morning for yourself. Focus on being the best you.
If you do this, you will not worry about being single, you will not worry about finding a suitable partner. You will understand there is no need to worry.
When you both do unite, you will help elevate each other to the next levels in your lives. You will enhance each other’s happiness. You will build together, you will inspire each other.
Does this mean we have to be perfect before we enter a relationship? No not at all. We just need to love ourselves.
It sounds so basic, but sometimes we don’t realise we don’t love ourselves, until we start loving ourselves.
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